tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post6826427809343651522..comments2015-08-20T11:37:59.929-05:00Comments on Baby Made Three: A little update- Second Trimester! hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02110735002081254539noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-35953215620369419722014-08-04T14:06:18.891-05:002014-08-04T14:06:18.891-05:00Thanks! It's so hard because I want to be ther...Thanks! It's so hard because I want to be there to support but I'm also really sensitive right now, it's a fine balance!hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110735002081254539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-64412896136387487682014-08-04T14:05:53.104-05:002014-08-04T14:05:53.104-05:00Thanks Sarah!! You're right, I might make it w...Thanks Sarah!! You're right, I might make it weirder than it actually is :)hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110735002081254539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-46096292305232536562014-08-04T14:05:27.155-05:002014-08-04T14:05:27.155-05:00I can't even wait to have my home back!!I can't even wait to have my home back!!hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110735002081254539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-82871473433496358632014-08-04T14:04:33.479-05:002014-08-04T14:04:33.479-05:00Oh I still talk to baby.. S/he's just called N...Oh I still talk to baby.. S/he's just called Nugget for now!! I don't know why I feel so strongly about NOT knowing... but I just do! hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110735002081254539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-70768067463899856172014-08-03T20:08:24.870-05:002014-08-03T20:08:24.870-05:00Yay for making it to the second trimester. I can&#...Yay for making it to the second trimester. I can't believe you don't want to know the gender. I love being able to talk to our baby and visualize and call it by name. Plus I'm a big planner. But I can imagine the element of surprise would be pretty amazing if you wait. Hope you and hubby work it out. Jessah @ Dreaming of Dimpleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02945119397487785737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-19995487235058154282014-07-30T17:56:27.443-05:002014-07-30T17:56:27.443-05:00Glad it's going well! I agree that you should...Glad it's going well! I agree that you should try to avoid the negative side of the IF world as much as possible at this stage. Franciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05034004540141447860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-617355768853293652014-07-30T16:18:44.558-05:002014-07-30T16:18:44.558-05:00Yay for 2nd trimester! I'm sorry you and your...Yay for 2nd trimester! I'm sorry you and your husband are disagreeing about the gender. Hopefully you can articulate how important it is to you and he can see that. I guess it gets challenging if he feels it's just as important to know, but imho the woman gets a trump card for carrying and birthing the child. :) Not to make light of your situation though - best of luck. I can promise you that the questions about gender will never stop from other people. Never. I get asked daily, and while no one has been rude upon hearing our decision to wait until birth, gender is the number one item they are interested in knowing or speculating on.<br /><br />And yes, it's a weird spot to be, pregnant after infertility struggles in this community. But I've found that I make myself feel weird about it, and people in this community have been the most congratulatory and supportive ever. And those that have a hard time reading about a pregnancy may stop reading for awhile, and I've realized that's ok. I was once in their shoes, and with luck they will be blessed with their baby someday like you and I are. <br /><br />Glad to get your update!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16130709434352231750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1298157987631943602.post-55439357595460223592014-07-30T11:20:46.623-05:002014-07-30T11:20:46.623-05:00Glad your pregnancy is going so well! Good news on...Glad your pregnancy is going so well! Good news on having your home back to yourselves also :)Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04738442092989090297noreply@blogger.com